Special Focus Groups

In recent years, the world has witnessed the acceptance of LGBTQ individuals. People are being exposed to conversations of sexuality and gender. Many people would agree that social media has played a significant role in increasing visibility, but it's not the sole reason for rising acceptance. Many of us know that a community like LGBTQ exists through social media. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: while awareness has grown, so has the backlash. Instead of fostering understanding and support, many use these platforms to bully LGBTQ individuals, leaving negative comments and perpetuating hate.

The question arises: After gaining awareness, what we have done? Are we even trying to build an inclusive society? If yes, then what about the rising suicidal cases among LGBTQ individuals? You may recall an incident that occurred around November, 2023. A 16-year-old queer child took their own life due to bullying. The class 10 student, studying in Ujjain, Madhya Pradesh used to share makeup related content on his Instagram. He had a good number of followers. Around Diwali, his reel went viral in which he was wearing a saree. Unfortunately, his comment section was flooded with hateful and homophobic comments leading to this heartbreaking outcome. Pranshu, whose dream of becoming a makeup artist was shattered by the cruelty of social media. Pranshu's mother said, "Why is no attention being paid to the fact that a 16-year- old faced hate comments online for doing something they not only loved, but were also good at?"

Similar incident occurred in 2019 when a 19-year-old from Chennai shared a Facebook post about the harassment he suffered around. In his post, he expressed “It’s not my fault that I was born gay. Everyone thinks I am a boy but the way I walk, think and talk is like a girl.” He also pleaded, “Please don’t blame my family, it’s not their fault either.” This statement is deeply concerning, which highlighted the level of discomfort and distress he faced due to the behaviour of those around him.

These two incidents are about India, a country that earlier used to accept and celebrate all forms of love. The Indian religious books which contained homosexual characters. The Rigveda contains the phrase Vikriti Evam Prakriti meaning what seems unnatural is also natural. Kamasutra mentions that the lesbians were called ‘Swarinis’. Another very visual example is the Khajuraho temple of Madhya Pradesh, built in the 12th century, known for their overt erotic sculptures showcasing the existence of sexual fluidity between homosexuals. The Indian society was tolerant towards them during ancient as well as medieval times. So, what’s stopping us now?

                                                                    Khajuraho Temple, Madhya Pradesh

Social Media? The social media platforms allow people from all walks of life- whether women, children or special focus groups-to showcase talent and skills. Media’s representation plays a significant role in shaping our perceptions. We must acknowledge the misrepresentation of gay characters in movies- often portrayed as flamboyant or negative stereotypes.

It's time for us to create a society that not only accepts but celebrates all forms of love as our ancestors did. By fostering education, awareness and compassion, we can build a society where no individual is compelled to take their own lives due the fear of rejection. Let’s choose understanding over judgement and empathy over indifference.